On a pillar in HQ.


On a pillar in HQ.

10 May 2012 ·


My husband and I have registered for the 2012 AIDS/LifeCycle! Follow our progress, trials and tribulations as we prepare!

27 January 2012 ·

Tori Amos//Silent All These Years

This may be the best version I’ve ever heard of my very favorite Tori Amos song.

Years go by
Will I still be waiting
For somebody else to understand?

14 January 2012 ·

This is pretty brilliant.

10 January 2012 ·


With love from San Francisco.
Equality for ALL Families in 2012!


With love from San Francisco.

Equality for ALL Families in 2012!

3 January 2012 ·


Hugo 3d!  (Taken with Instagram at Sundance Kabuki Cinemas)

GPOYW, “3D glasses” edition


Hugo 3d! (Taken with Instagram at Sundance Kabuki Cinemas)

GPOYW, “3D glasses” edition

7 December 2011 ·

"I’m singing a sad song
In a very deep voice
Because I’m so sad
And also a man with a very deep voice

In this song the tempo is faster
But it’s misleading
Because I’m still singing
About being sad"

~ Lee sung this to me this morning as his version/interpretation of every song by The National.

I’ll allow it because he’s still coming with me to their show tonight.

3 December 2011 ·

World AIDS Day 2011 - The Big Picture



World AIDS Day is dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic caused by the spread of HIV infection. AIDS has killed more than 25 million people between 1981 and 2007 and an estimated 33.2 million people worldwide live with HIV (as of 2007), making it one of the most destructive epidemics in recorded history. Yet today, there is serious talk about the “end” of this global epidemic. There are now 6.6 million people on life-saving AIDS medicine, but still too many are being infected. New research proves that early antiretroviral treatment will slash the rate of new HIV cases by up to 60 percent. This is described as the tipping point that so many have tirelessly tried to reach. — Paula Nelson

(Source: jayjayasuriya)

1 December 2011 ·

This is beautiful and amazing.

1 December 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Day 30

Well, this wasn’t very well planned. Apparently I can’t count to 30 because I’ve managed to get to the end of the month without counting two of the most important people in my life. Sorry, you two, but you’ll have to share a post!

I’m thankful for my husband.

I’m thankful for my sister.

Lee, you are a rockstar. Someday all of the two-jobs-in-one and the class-twice-a-week and the side-projects-in-Sri-Lanka will be over and we’ll be able to hang out again. And won’t that be nice?

Jodie, you are my hero. May you never lose your sparkle.

30 November 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Day 29

I’m thankful for my parents.

I think, when you’re a kid, your parents are superheroes. They possess magical powers of healing and safety and bandage you up when you crack your head open on a fireplace and/or cut your mouth falling down the stairs (ahem) and take you to the hospital when you’ve fallen on a pool ladder and sliced yourself up and keep their cool when they’re investigated for child abuse (true story). They make you giggle and read to you and play endless hours of paper dolls and feed you and lead your girl scout troop and take you fishing and throw you epic birthday parties and leave you alone for hours at a time so you can play by yourself in your huge walk-in closet full of toys. They put up with your stubbornness and your tantrums and your antics and your mischief, and they tell stories about the time at the New Kids on the Block concert when you cut the line for the bathroom. They are your world, your everything, your life, your parents.

And then, I think, when you’re a teenager, and maybe into your early 20s, these superheroes suddenly and inexplicably lose all of their magic, pretty much overnight, and are replaced by these two completely out of touch ogres who just totally don’t get you at all and suck at everything they do and are so embarrassing and oh my God, everything bad that’s ever happened to you is their fault entirely and you’re not responsible for any of your bad actions or choices or attitudes because it’s their fault, they made you that way. And all of the magic, all of the big and small acts of love and sacrifice and tenderness and compassion and accountability and responsibility, all of the parenting, is shrugged off or rationalized or under-appreciated or not appreciated at all, because that’s what they’re there for, anyway, isn’t it - to revolve around you, like the rest of the world does.

And then, I think, when you grow up a little more, and you get a little older, and you have some distance, and some perspective, you finally begin to see your parents for who they have been all along. You can see the magic, you can see the flaws, you can see the people that you feel proud and lucky to call yours, and you are so, so thankful that they raised you.

29 November 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Days 24-28

I’m thankful for:

long bike rides and extensive seester time,
safe travels,
sleeping indoors,
family movie outings,
mahjong tournaments,
an extra special gift from my nana, and
beautiful hikes on beautiful days

28 November 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Day 23

I’m thankful for my friendship with Matt, a friendship I made the mistake of taking for granted once, and will never take for granted again. Matt and I went through some drama senior year of college, when a turbulent mix of bad decisions, egos, self-righteousness, stubbornness, and alcohol manifested in a couple of major blow-ups. Since we had been such good friends up until that point, it made me really sad (when I wasn’t feeling angry, hurt, and, mostly, knowing me, self-righteous) to think that we might not actually be friends forever.

Fortunately, during the first stop on my road trip to California, Matt and I had a little sit down. I remember sitting on his front stoop after a night out, smoking (because I was so cool), and Matt coming outside, sitting down, and in his uniquely Matt way, declaring that we needed to discuss the state of our friendship. I had never (and have never, since) been asked so point-blankly if I wanted to stay friends with someone; if I was willing to put in the time and the energy and the common courtesy that Matt needed to feel like I was being a friend to him. It was a mature question, and an uncomfortable one, and it didn’t paint me in a pretty light, and it was a major turning point for us. That question was a line in the sand between pettiness and hurt feelings and the Future, a Future where we were going to live 3,000 miles away from each other and still call ourselves best friends, complete with the effort and the niceties that come with the title.

I thought about Matt’s question. I thought about how I had treated him out of hurt and anger and, you guessed it, self-righteousness. I thought about the thousands of times that Matt had been a good friend to me and I had taken him for granted, the times that I had (correctly) assumed he would be what I needed when I needed it, and not thanked him. I thought about moving away, and what it means to put work into a friendship. I took a good look at an ugly part of myself and found the answer I needed.

My answer was yes.

And I’m a better friend and a happier person for it.

23 November 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Day 22

I’m thankful for my Mattea! My croney, my lovechunk, my partner-in-crime, my road buddy, my inventor of new games, my midnight kiss on new year’s eve, my fellow English major, my world traveller, my hero, my best friend. I’m a few days late on the birthday wishes (typical) but I hope 29 is your best year ever, filled with love and joy and fun and everything good in the world. I can’t wait to see you next month, and see what adventures we get up to!

22 November 2011 ·

November Thankfulness Campaign, Days 19-21

I’m thankful for:

long bikes rides in the rain
homemade breakfast
catching up
weekend naps
a rainbow after a storm

21 November 2011 ·

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